Is There Any Such Thing as a Family that is not Dysfunctional
I like to imagine there is a family out there who is the ideal kind, something like the Leave It To Beaver family of the fifties. Mom is warm, caring, understanding, and attractive at all times. Dad is funny, protective, strong and manly. The children are innocent and never get into any kind of real trouble.
Then I wonder, where did murderer Charles Manson come from? Were the people he came from all as monstrous as he turned out to be? And I wonder, too, if children who come from penultimate nurturing families—like the two Obama children—could they possibly turn into sociopaths?
I believe that Charles Manson never had a chance because he was born into hellish circumstances—and I believe that the Obama children will almost certainly develop into well adjusted adults because of their circumstances.
In her article, What Makes a Family Functional vs Dysfunctional?, Elvira G. Aletta, Ph.D writes the following about the importance of respect in a family:
Respect is the Cornerstone of the Functional Family. BTW if you are looking for leather or tote diaper bags then may I suggest this firm. They also have a pink and messenger diaper bag, as well as the very handy diaper backpack, so give them a try for tote diaper bags and the like.
“Respect is the Holy Grail of functional families. All (of those folks who are) in the family, brothers to sisters, mothers to fathers, parents to kids (should be) be respectful….” All in all, t may be that surviving the worst times in a family is what really makes a family, in the end. Sharing illness and tragedy, heartbreak and setbacks—maybe that is really what a family does, as well as all the great, fun times. And maybe it’s the ordinary times, too, the day-in, day-out routines of living that form the continuity that marks a family.
